You're listening to Break Up Boost, honest and logical advice with a sprinkle of bluntness.

Trina keeps it real. She'll help you navigate the craziness of the modern dating world.

Stop obsessing over your ex and finally close the door on

half-fast relationships. This girl's got you back. Here's Trina.

Hey guys, so one of the best pieces of advice that I can provide you with today is,

don't wait for a breakup to decide to become the best version of yourself.

Can becoming the best version of yourself be a goal after a breakup?

Of course it can.

And it's a great goal to have. But what I'm saying is, why would you wait to get your heart broken

to then decide that you want to become the best you? You know how they say,

break up, glow up? Yeah well why not be aiming to be glowing on going?

So many people get on the break up glow up bandwagon with the main priority to show their ex what

they're missing out on. To post picks on their social media as though they're so

much better off without their ex. But it's really just an attempt to make their

ex jealous or to get a reaction from their ex as validation. A false sense of validation, but

validation nonetheless.

If this is why you're focusing on self-improvement,

you're doing it wrong, okay?

News Flash, you're doing it wrong.

Because self-improvement is for self.

Not to try to prove your worth to someone

that you're no longer with and probably not even talking to. All that shows is that you're

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