But some tips would be ask your spouse what would get them excited to do on a date

What would they look forward to do if they could plan an ideal date or something that you know in the next two to three weeks that would be realistic what would they do?

So just get them thinking about it by asking them.

I think another strategy that Amy and I used to do

was taking turns planning dates where I plan this one you plan the next one and then

when your spouse does take the initiative to plan don't criticize them if you're not happy with how something went.

Doing that will quickly put them back in the stage of not planning anymore.

I'm Amy.

And I'm Abby.

And as women, we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers. Being your best self means

standing firm in your decisions and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

We get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face

Every woman listening gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

It's been a bit since we invited our husbands onto the podcast and today they are back. So for our new listeners Drew is Amy's husband and Colin and I are married.

Both of us have been in our relationships for about 10 years and we also got

married in May of 2014.

So one of the reasons that we really like to have them on the

podcast and that it's meaningful is because they're willing to be honest and

vulnerable and they can help us pull back the curtain on our marriages.

There are areas that each of us are strong and areas that we could all improve.

An important part of our message is that anyone in a long-term relationship is working

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