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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#328: Answers to Your Questions About Pornography

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 31 August 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

"Will I cause a set-back in my husband’s recovery if I say no to sex?"  
 
"My daughter talks to me about her porn addiction, but she’s mortified at the thought of telling her dad, is that okay?"
 
"My husband confessed to looking at women on Instagram. It wasn’t exactly a porn relapse—so why am I so angry about it?"
 
This week, our guest is Jonathan Daugherty, author of Grace Based Recovery and founder of Be Broken Ministries. He sits down with Juli to offer hope, encouragement, and answers to oft-asked questions we get from listeners about pornography. Whether you’re an addict, a spouse, or a friend walking this journey with a loved one, you’ll want to tune in to this Java with Juli.

Guest: Jonathan Daugherty

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Well, on Java with Julie, you probably know that we don't do small talk, and that's because we address some really difficult questions around intimacy and sexuality.

0:12.3

Whether you're young or old or single or married, we're often unsure of what it means to see our sexuality as something intertwined with our spirituality and to see it as something good.

0:22.7

This fall, September 17th through the 20th, you're invited to Reclaim 2.0.

0:28.4

A free four-day digital summit. You'll hear from a lot of different experts like Jackie Hill

0:33.6

Perry, Jay Stringer, Christopher Yuan, Linda Dillo, Mary Dumuth, on topic spanning from

0:39.3

singleness, gender, sexual addiction, marriage, intimacy, and more in the light of God's Word.

0:46.0

And in addition to expert interviews, you can attend live panel discussions, view recordings

0:50.8

from some of my teachings last year at the Reclaim Conference and join me and

0:55.0

my husband Mike for a live devotional.

0:57.8

My hope for Reclaim 2.0 is that you'll walk away with a richer understanding of biblical

1:03.0

sexuality and what it means to live with sexual integrity and how to walk with others in both

1:08.5

the truth and grace of Jesus.

1:10.6

You can find out more and register at authenticanimacy.com slash reclaim.

1:15.6

I'll see you there.

1:20.6

Hey friend, I'm Julie Slattery, and this is Java with Julie.

1:26.7

Thanks for joining me. This podcast is a production

1:29.8

of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. Earlier in this year,

1:37.0

we did a webinar on the topic of pornography, and in our webinars, we always ask you to send in your

1:43.0

questions so that we can answer them during our live Q&A time.

1:46.8

We had so many questions come in for this particular topic that we weren't able to get to all of them.

1:52.2

So I'm really grateful to have my friend Jonathan Dardy here today with me to help answer some of the questions that we didn't get to during our webinar.

2:00.4

Questions like, when it comes to pornography, am I setting my husband up for failure if I say no to sex?

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