Another question to ask yourself is, do I even want to be there? So sometimes you can see something and you're hurt because you're watching the event happen. You're watching the dinner happen. You're watching the big vacation happen. It's like, do you actually even want to be there? Because sometimes it's like, you know what? I don't. I don't. And sometimes you do. And sometimes you do. And it makes a very different feel based on that.

I do think that just checking in with yourself and being like, okay, was I gone?

What I really have gone?

What I really have gone.

And sometimes it is just nice to get the invite.

And we understand that part too.

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Hey, you guys, we have a really good episode today because we're going to talk about

not taking things personally. And this is an episode that was truly created from our listeners.

It's something that we get asked about all the time. And so we really thought that we could

put some thoughts together

with this one. And as you'll see throughout the episode, this shows up in different parts of

your life. We are going to talk about not taking things personally with your partner,

with your parenting, and with your friendships. So I'm so excited to dive in, but we thought it would be really good

to start the episode with something that I've said before. But part of not taking things

personally, I think goes right along with defensiveness. Because what happens is you're seeing

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