And that goes right into the third one, which is alignment with your values.

Because two people could look at the same decision and have a very different answer, a very different outcome based on what their values are.

And even if you're pros and cons list, I am a fan of pros and cons list.

But even if your pros list, for instance, is shorter than your cons list, if your pros list is full of all the things that you truly

value and the cons are things that are just kind of okay for you, it still might be a good

decision. I'm Amy. And I'm Abby. And as women, we are constantly comparing ourselves to

others. But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions

and always being willing to grow with a purpose.

We get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face.

Every woman listening gets an opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

Okay, you guys, I'm really excited for this episode today because we're going to talk all

about decisions and decision making.

And where we're coming from is two women that are almost 40.

And we are going to share our experience because for one of us in the room, this has been a

real work in progress. And sometimes that's all you can do. You know, if you have something

that doesn't come naturally to you to work on it and to

figure out, okay, how could I become a little bit better at this? So it's not a constant stressor.

Because like we all know, at this age, with kids, with careers, with families, with sports,

there are so many decisions to be made. And right before we

jumped on, we were talking through that. We've heard over and over women around our age,

mothers can get very decision fatigued. And that there's huge decisions to be made and there's

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