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Strictly Stalking

311. My Pastor Stalked Me: Chapter 1

Strictly Stalking

Strictly Stalking

Society & Culture, True Crime

4.12.6K Ratings

🗓️ 30 December 2025

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

Marie went to church looking for peace. She found a pastor she trusted… and a predator she never saw coming. For years, he followed her—appearing where he shouldn't, watching when she didn't know. But nothing prepared her for the night her home security cameras revealed the unthinkable: he had crossed her threshold. In this episode, Marie exposes the spiritual betrayal, psychological manipulation, and terrifying stalking she endured at the hands of the man who was supposed to protect her.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Saturday morning when I woke up, when I turned on my cell phone, the first notification that I saw was from my indoor security camera.

0:09.3

So that camera showed my former pastor coming up from the basement, the door leads into the kitchen, coming into my kitchen, using his flashlight on his phone, and just standing in my

0:25.9

kitchen. Before we get started, we want to let you know that this story is too layered and too

0:31.6

intense to contain in a single episode. To do it justice, we're bringing it to you in two parts. In today's episode,

0:39.7

you'll hear the events that led up to Marie's stalker being arrested and the moment everything

0:44.3

changed. Then, next week, we'll return with part two, covering the court battle, what happened

0:50.7

to the stalker, and where Marie is now.

0:55.5

I'm Jamie Beebe.

0:56.7

And I'm Jake Deptula.

1:01.1

On today's episode of Strictly Stock and we're speaking with Marie, she thought she'd found safety in her church, comfort, and her pastor.

1:04.0

Instead, she found herself living inside a nightmare.

1:06.8

For years, Marie was watched, followed by a man she once trusted with her faith and her healing.

1:12.6

Then one night, her security cameras revealed the truth.

1:15.7

He wasn't just watching her life.

1:17.7

He was inside her home.

1:19.8

Today, Marie tells her story of spiritual betrayal, stalking, and what it takes to survive when the person with the most power over you becomes the person

1:27.6

you fear most. Marie, thank you for joining us today. Thank you. Thank you for having me.

1:33.4

Before all this began, how would you have described your life and your sense of safety in the world?

1:38.7

Before my experience, I would say it was more stable and more secure. I didn't have complete security because of a

1:48.8

divorce I'd been going through, but it was definitely more of a sense of security that I had.

1:55.4

And I just, I had a lot of goals. I was working towards and just working a lot and parenting and prioritizing my children

2:05.1

and spending a lot of time with them and enjoying life in the world was not super safe,

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