307: Help! I'm Too Physically Attractive! | Feedback Friday
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
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🗓️ 31 January 2020
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
Being unattractive to potential partners is obviously not ideal, but what happens when you're too physically attractive to land meaningful attention from someone who might complete you? We'll tackle this and more on the latest Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:- Our prison trip is officially full! If you want to get on the waiting list in case we have last-minute cancellations, please drop Jordan a line at prison@jordanharbinger.com!
- Should a tip be optional unless service is above and beyond what's expected from your server -- instead of obligatory because the restaurant or business won't pay their staff enough?
- You've been at your job for a long time and you want to do something different. How do you let your employer know that you want to transition out of your current role while still keeping a positive relationship?
- You're the only child, and you've got an overly sensitive and selfish parent you need to take care of. What can you do to make sure they don't stress you out when you're expected to drop everything to attend to their needs?
- You're in a long-term relationship that seems to be on track for marriage. What do we suggest you talk about to make sure you're both on the same page before you make the biggest commitment of your life?
- You want to settle down in one place after moving to six different states and countries over the past 12 years, but your spouse can't seem to decide where to settle. What can you do to come to an agreeable compromise?
- You're a successful, moderately attractive person who seems to get attention from all the wrong people. Potential friends either want to date you or worry their partners want to date you. On top of all this, you're demisexual. How can you find someone compatible?
- Life Pro Tip: Instead of spending a day shopping, spend a day cleaning out your closet. You will find clothes you didn't realize you had and re-discover old favorites you thought you had lost. Plus, it's free!
- Recommendation of the Week: Wrong Man
- A quick shout out to Amanda Milligan!
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger, and I'm here with producer |
| 0:07.5 | Jason DeFilippo. On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills |
| 0:12.3 | of the world's most brilliant and interesting people and turn their wisdom into practical |
| 0:16.9 | advice that you can use to impact your own life and those around you. If you're new to |
| 0:21.5 | the show on Fridays, we give advice to you and answer listener questions. The rest of |
| 0:25.8 | the week, we have long form interviews and conversations with a variety of amazing folks |
| 0:30.1 | from spies to CEOs, athletes to authors to thinkers and performers. This week, we had |
| 0:35.3 | activist Shaka Singer. He was in prison for a while and actually reformed a certain gang |
| 0:41.1 | culture in prison to be more community service-oriented, kind of an amazing story and an amazing |
| 0:46.0 | person. We also had BJ Fogg, the OG of behavior change, one of the original researchers when |
| 0:52.4 | it comes to human habit change and behavior modification. His book, Tiny Habits, is recent |
| 0:57.8 | and I think it's going to be one of the go-to guides for behavior change, for habit change. |
| 1:02.4 | So go check out what we created for you here this week. Of course, our primary mission |
| 1:06.2 | here on the Jordan Harbinger show is to pass along our guests and our own experiences |
| 1:11.1 | and insights to you. In other words, we want to have conversations directly with you and |
| 1:14.6 | that's what we do today and every Friday here on Feedback Friday. I just want to place |
| 1:19.1 | one brick in the structure that makes up your life. That's what this podcast is really |
| 1:23.5 | all about. You can reach us Friday at Jordan Harbinger.com. The prison trip is full. If |
| 1:28.6 | you want to come, that's more than full already. If you're dying to come to prison with us |
| 1:32.4 | February 26, 2020 and join us in our volunteering with the inmates at high desert maximum security |
| 1:38.6 | facility, let me know. Prison at Jordan Harbinger.com will probably have some last minute cancellations |
| 1:43.6 | will figure out something. I'm really excited for this. I can't believe how many of you are |
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