#307: Consequences of Being With the Wrong Person (Thoughts from Love Island)
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 28 August 2025
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Shena reflects on the consequences and how one's life can be affected if we are connected to those who give red flag behaviors and indicators that they may not be a good match for us emotionally, mentally, or physically (in regards ot safety).
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| 0:00.0 | My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there. |
| 0:20.0 | Just to bring it out. This is what |
| 0:22.1 | compels me to compel them. And I will do it by whatever means necessary. Welcome to the Black |
| 0:30.2 | Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and resolve trauma |
| 0:35.0 | and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others. |
| 0:39.5 | Every episode, we will talk about advice you can apply today to bring unhealthy patterns and grow |
| 0:45.1 | in your self-work. I'm Sheena Lachay, love addiction coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin. |
| 0:53.6 | Hello, hello. Welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heal. I'm so happy to be |
| 0:58.1 | with you today. Happy because I love teaching and being here, but a little bit sad to be honest |
| 1:05.6 | about today's topic. So today's topic is reflecting on the consequences of being someone who is the wrong partner for you or someone who is not a good fit for you or may not have your best interest at heart or their own insecurities, their own narcissism, their own selfishness will overshadow and overpower any good that you are trying to do in the relationship. |
| 1:27.8 | And I'm going to talk about this more after the jump, but it's going to be shared through the |
| 1:32.4 | lens of reflections that I've had with watching Love Island season seven. |
| 1:37.0 | Now, if you've never watched the show before, if you have no interest in it, if you saw |
| 1:41.7 | that it was everywhere and you you intentionally stayed away |
| 1:44.7 | from it because it felt like it was too overdone, do not worry. When I start sharing the examples, |
| 1:49.7 | they're going to be very general. I'm not going to specifically be using people's names. |
| 1:54.0 | Those people who are fans of the show, you may be able to guess what are some of the examples |
| 1:58.3 | that I'm talking about, especially now that we are |
| 2:01.9 | a few at the time that I'm recording this and the time that I'm posting this. We are a few days |
| 2:07.1 | after the reunion. We are a day or so after a very, there have been many interviews after |
| 2:14.7 | the reunion, but there's been one that very recently has become |
| 2:18.2 | very explosive. Again, if you're a fan of the show or on social media, you know which |
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