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Twenty red flags you may be getting slow dumped. Have you ever been in a situation where you feel

as though the other person is starting to pull away and then you start getting anxious. You wonder what's going on,

what happened? You replay certain things in your head to try to figure it out.

And you want to ask questions, but then at the same time, you're kind of scared to because

you know that if you ask and don't hear the answer you want to hear it's

gonna suck or just becomes super awkward. Yeah not fun right so naturally it's super disappointing if you had high hopes for a happy and healthy relationship with this person.

It's just really unsettling. in addition to this you may also be wondering is

there hope to try to improve things or is there an opportunity to resolve

whatever problems are causing them to veer off?

You may also be waiting to see if things could just go back to how they were in happier times.

You know, if you keep pretending that everything's totally fine

maybe it'll just go back. But unfortunately chances are slim of that happening.

You may also try doing more things for them in an effort to turn things around or attempt to buy their love, so to speak, you know, by their love and attention in various ways.

So in other words, you may start feeling desperate to salvage things.

Here's the thing, when the person you're dating starts to gradually distance themselves from you physically and emotionally

without having a discussion about not being fulfilled in the relationship or about potentially ending the relationship,

you may be getting slow dumped.

When you are dumped in a more out of the blue fashion, you know, even though it's not really ever out of the blue because the other person has been thinking about it for a while, you just haven't been privy to that. It's like a band-aid is ripped off you know it stings and yeah it's super painful

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