302: WHEN DRIFT BEGINS TO HAPPEN

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2015

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

This time of year can be challenging for so many marriages. You are trying to hold it together for the family, for the kids, for the holidays and for yourself. Over the last weeks and months you have noticed that you and your spouse have begin to drift. You're living in survival mode, dealing with one thing after the next and yet you were designed to thrive. How did the drift begin in your marriage? For many of us we are TOO busy. There are his schedule, her schedule, the kids’ schedules, volunteering, getting together with friends. So much going on that there was little to no time to truly connect with one another. You and your spouse are not listening to each other. In the precious moments that you have together there is a rush to get through whatever you have to say OR you are so distracted that listening becomes secondary to whatever else you are doing. Also, opportunities to spend time with one another are eclipsed by whatever was on the to do list. This has to get done, we’ve got to do this, etc. etc. You are drifting apart right now from your spouse and there is no end in sight. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about what happens when drift begins to happen in your marriage and what you can do to connect once again. EPISODE SPONSOR | Holiday Book Bundle Christmas is next week and you might be thinking, “What do I get my husband or wife?” We’ve got the perfect solution for you but you are going to have to act fast because there are only 30 of these available... It’s the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Holiday Book Bundle. Softcover copies of our two most popular titles: Connect Like You Did When You First Met 101 Proven Questions for Couples AND 7 Days of Sex Challenge. Improve your emotional intimacy and your physical intimacy this Christmas season. Get both of these titles for only $19 for the bundle, that’s a 56% savings. Grab your Holiday Book Bundle Today! Good or God by John Bevere Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show, where being busy is overdone.
0:05.6	Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.9	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your your co-host along with my beautiful wife
0:14.0	Elisa from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us. It's time to
0:19.1	talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 563, that's 858, 876, 5663.
0:31.4	In today's show, we talk about what you can learn from others circumstances.
0:37.0	And novelist Ernest Hemingway had this to say about listening.
0:40.2	He said, I like to listen.
0:41.9	I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people
0:46.3	never listen. As we talk about learning from other people's circumstances and other people's
0:51.8	experiences, that listening part other people's experiences.
0:52.6	That listening part, that's key.
0:54.9	I'm really going to be honing in on that on today's show.
0:57.0	And before we do that, we do the hug.
0:59.6	Each and every week we share what's been going on in one extraordinary marriage, the one
1:04.5	extraordinary marriage family, specifically how the show or how the
1:07.3	resources have impacted you in your marriage. And this week's hug is
1:11.1	brought to you by one extraordinary marriages holiday book bundle.
1:15.9	So just in case you've missed it or you've been hiding under a rock, Christmas is coming next week.
1:21.8	And some of you, the procrastinating type are thinking oh my gosh what do I
1:24.6	get my husband or my wife well Tony and I have got the perfect solution for you but
1:29.2	you're gonna have to act fast because there are only 30 of these available. It's the One Extraordinary Marriage
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