301: THOSE COMPETING VOICES

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 December 2015

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

What you choose to listen to does and will impact the decisions that you make. You have voices that are marriage enriching, which foster your relationship and are strong when the two of you are making time for each other, sharing your lives with each other both emotionally and physically. Then there are those voices encouraging you to be selfish. They begin to get louder when there is a disconnect in your emotional, physical, spiritual and financial intimacies. It gets harder to listen to those positive marriage enriching voices when the two of you have let everything else get in the way of your marriage. Don't let these competing voices distract you any longer. Make a choice, daily, sometimes minute by minute that you are going to stop and ask the question, is this choice, is this decision supporting my marriage? Am I choosing to be selfless or selfish in this moment... Selfless, go with it. Selfish, stop in your tracks and determine if this is the path you want to start down. Make sure that those situations, (business trips, electronics, friends, co-workers, etc) that continue to arise that you implement guardrails around. In doing so you will hear the voice that will enrich your marriage. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about those competing voices in your head, the ones that encourage you to build your marriage and the ones that justify taking dangerous actions. EPISODE SPONSOR | 101 Easy and Creative Gift Ideas Christmas is almost here and you might be scrambling, trying to figure out just what to give your spouse. Take a deep breath, our team here at ONE Extraordinary Marriage has done the hard work for you. We have compiled a list of 101 Easy and Creative Gift Ideas, everything from body scrub to a hot tub. Gifts for him, for her and for the two of you. It can be hard to find just that special something but this list makes it easy for you. Mind Mastery Cards Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,
0:05.6	romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.
0:10.7	I'm Tony Delorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.
0:14.7	From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.
0:18.4	It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.
0:21.4	Give us a call at 858, 876, 563, that's 858, 876, 5663.
0:27.0	In today's show, we talk about those competing voices in your head, the ones that
0:35.0	encourage you to build your marriage, and the one that justify taking dangerous
0:39.4	action. An American humorous Josh Billings had this to say about conscience and
0:44.3	reason and mistakes. He said reason often makes mistakes, but conscience never
0:49.6	does. And that's what we're going to be digging into today when we talk about
0:52.2	these competing voices.
0:54.0	But before we get there, this week's hug is brought to you by One Extraordinary Marriages,
0:58.0	101 easy and creative Christmas gift ideas for the spouse who has everything.
1:04.8	You know, Christmas is almost here and some of you might still be scrambling, trying to figure
1:08.8	out just what to give your spouse.
1:11.0	But I want you to take a deep breath because our team here at One Extraordinary Marriage
1:14.6	has done the hard work for you. We've compiled a list of 101 easy and creative gift ideas.
1:20.8	Everything from body scrub to a hot tub gifts for him for her and for the two of
1:27.0	you it can be hard to find just that special something but this list makes it easy
1:31.6	for you our listeners so go to one extraordinary marriage
1:35.2	dot com slash gift ideas to check it out and this hug today guys it's been a
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