My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there.

Just to bring it out. This is what

compels me to compel them. And I will do it by whatever means necessary. Welcome to the Black

Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and resolve trauma

and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

Every episode, we will talk about advice you can apply today to bring unhealthy patterns and

grow in your self-work. I'm Sheena Lachay, love addiction coach and trauma specialist.

Let's begin.

Hello, hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heels.

So we are in week two of our addressing our mother and father wounds series.

I hope that last week's episode helped you put into words some things that may have been

coming up for you and gave you some next steps

of what you want to dig deeper into, whether or not it's wounds that have already been healed.

So when you heard about it, you're like, this is no longer me.

And I'm grateful that I'm able to look at this with a different lens or with instead of it

being a wound, it's now a scar.

I can acknowledge what happened.

I can acknowledge where the hurt

was. And I can even talk about how it affected me. But I have come to a place of closure and

acceptance and real healing around it. Right. So I hope that was the experience for many of you.

And for some of you, places that it was still Tinder, it was still a topic or a situation

that you felt like you needed more support with, that you were able to talk with some trusted

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