You're listening to Break Up Boost, honest and logical advice with a sprinkle of bluntness.

Trina keeps it real. She'll help you navigate the craziness of the modern dating world.

Stop obsessing over your ex and finally close the door

on half-fast relationships. This girl's got you back. Here's Trina.

Hey guys, let's just get right into it.

There's this one thought that women drive themselves crazy with after a breakup.

He's going to be perfect for the next one.

And actually, it's not just after a breakup. Many women will

literally stay in the most toxic and broken relationship because they would rather do that than have some dude who really does nothing

for them but cause them a headache suddenly be perfect for the next one.

And I really wanted to do this episode to show you why it's so crucial to stop having this mindset.

Aside from, it's not even possible for anyone to be perfect.

The main piece of the pie here is that he wasn't a good partner for you,

or it would have never gotten to this point.

And why wasn't he a good partner for you?

Because he didn't want to be.

Because the two of you realistically

were not a good match, no matter how much

you keep telling yourself that he was the one

and we were soulmates and all that jazz.

Or again, it never would have gotten to this point.

Seriously, don't even try to defend it or deny it.

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