30. Who Am I Outside of My Relationship? with Anna Kai

Healing Her with Ashley LeMieux

Cloud10

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

5.0 • 987 Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2024

⏱️ 59 minutes

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I'm so excited to share this conversation I had with Anna Kai on finding yourself and having healthy relationships. Anna is known for sharing her stories of dating in New York before finding her now-husband. Sharing all the lessons she’s learned along the way dating “Chad” after “Chad”. She talked about how important it was for her to find her identity and confidence outside of her relationships and the value of women having financial independence. I even share one of my own embarrassing dating stories and what I would have told my younger self. HIGHLIGHTS 00:45 Relationships and dating in New York City. 09:00 My embarrassing dating story that included a shock collar. 13:00 How childhood bullying showed up in life as an adult trying to fit in. 21:45 What is love bombing? 26:15 Self-discovery and financial independence after a painful breakup. 33:00 What did you do to build your self confidence? 39:30 Meal planning for busy parents. 42:45 How to find your identity through life changes like becoming a mom. 48:15 Navigating the pressures women face balancing career and motherhood. 52:45 How has working on self love and self discovery reduced your anxiety? This episode’s sponsors: Check out DrinkAG1.com/healingher Get your free 2 week trial of Prep Dish - go to prepdish.com/healingher RESOURCES + LINKS Want to feel more peace? Get your peace score with this quiz! Get Clarity Mapping: A Guided Journal to Living An Intentional Life Read my new book - I Am Here by Ashley LeMieux FOLLOW Ashley LeMieux: @ashleyklemieux Anna Kai: @maybeboth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:28.9	C EE. E. dot credit e. claims. I spent the next couple years like going into
0:32.3	patterns like that where I would date the nice guy because he was safe and I knew he wouldn't leave me but I didn't really like him, you know, and then I would leave him and then go date the absolute tool
0:44.0	and do things to make him want me
0:46.8	and then go back to dating the nice.
0:48.7	I was always this like,
0:49.6	you know, I couldn't find a happy medium.
0:51.0	And then you finally realize that like like you just probably need to be
0:54.0	single for a while figure out what it is that you like to do and are good at what makes you
0:58.4	feel valuable as a human outside of a relationship and that's really what led me to where I am now.
1:04.0	Welcome to the Healing Her Podcast.
1:07.0	This is your grief expert and friend Ashley Lemieux. Welcome back you guys to this week's episode of Healing Her. So we are still in our New York podcast series which has just
1:26.3	been so fun and I feel like I could pinch myself right now because of the
1:31.3	guest that is sitting across from me. Before I introduce who she is, I want to preface this by saying, you know, on healing her, we talk about so many tangible tools to help ourselves feel better help ourselves
1:46.8	be able to move forward and a really important aspect of all of our lives are the relationships that we're in. I know that I have the privilege of who I'm married because he is so supportive that we can be on our healing journey together and I just want to recognize that I know that not all
2:05.2	relationships are that way and it does add this layer of complexity when you are in your healing
2:11.9	journey if your partner isn't supportive or they're not on the same page as you are.
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