30 Taylor Swift Shows Later… Red Flag?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 1 October 2025

⏱️ 79 minutes

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Summary

Jared starts off the podcast with a redflag dealbreaker he heard: a straight guy has been to 30 Taylor Swift concerts. He and Jordana debate whether it makes him a groupie, a walking turn-off, or just a man who unapologetically loves what he loves. They help a woman who writes in who is dating without wanting kids, and why singles constantly get dismissed with “maybe you’ll change your mind.” A listener wonders if it’s icky or picky that her chef boyfriend eats PB&J every single day, and another listener confesses a crush that ends with the dreaded “don’t wait for me.” Plus, J&J prove that the best dates can cost just $10, and break down what it really means when your partner hides a secret Finsta! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	When you get a career success, are you not thinking about like someone who doubted you a little bit?
0:06.0	A little bit?
0:06.8	I mean a little bit.
0:07.9	A little bit.
0:08.3	Obviously, it's not like what you're thinking about on the day, like all day, but there is like a passing thought.
0:13.4	I will say when I had, when I, the Netflix special like was announced a thought of like people who dated me did I did have that thought of like
0:23.8	people who doubted you who dated you no one ever really no one ever said to my face no one
0:28.7	ever thought you couldn't do it no like I'm a richest to riches tale or yes you know the
0:34.7	American dream. Yeah. Literally.
0:43.0	Hello and welcome back to the U-Up podcast.
0:44.1	I'm Jordana Abraham.
0:45.6	And I am Jared Fried.
0:48.1	It is so good to be back here with you, Jordana.
0:50.0	I'm starting off embarrassed.
0:58.7	We were supposed to watch you've got mail for our Friday feels episode, and I immediately went, yep, I didn't watch that.
1:00.8	I totally forgot to do it.
1:02.1	Was this like you in school?
1:02.8	Yes.
1:04.2	This is me in school. Like, teachers like, and everyone take out the worksheet from the homework last night, and you'd be like, didn't do that.
1:10.3	I literally would have to eat
1:11.8	it there's so many times in my school history of me going that's a thing that we were supposed to do
1:17.5	for today that's the thing i knew to do for today did not do that thing for today like nice
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