Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives.

We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth.

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage?

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife.

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. Okay, in today's episode, we're talking again about lies women believe, specifically lies that affect their marriages and limit their ability to enjoy sex and intimacy in their marriages.

Now, if you listen to our last episode, you know that we've already talked about this,

but when we started thinking about what we wanted to cover, we found that there were so many

lies that women believe that we thought it would take two episodes to cover it.

And in fact, in the last episode, we only

covered two of them. So we want to talk about a couple of more lies that women believe today, and

then also talk about the truth that can put those lies to rest and allow women to embrace

sex in their marriages. So one of the ones I'd like to talk about is the lie that I'm not enough, which I think so many women believe, and there are a lot of variations of that.

I'm not beautiful enough. I'm not sexy enough. I'm not.

Ladies, what are some of the I'm not enough lies that women believe and how can we try to counter them?

One of the ways that I looked at that was I'm not pure enough because I came with premarital sexual stupidity and sin.

And the whole thought that in order to be a good wife and

in order to get the sex life that God had in store, I was supposed to have been a good

enough girl to have deserved that. So it's not exactly that I'm not beautiful enough, but it was very much an I'm not enough.

I can relate to that one.

I bet a lot of our listeners can too.

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