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The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

3 Steps to Developing a Positive Attitude | #TomFerryShow Episode 45

The Tom Ferry Podcast Experience

Tom Ferry

Education, Business, Self-improvement

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2016

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

As an independent contractor...someone who has to self motivate everyday to accomplish goals...how much time do you spend fighting self talk? You know, those times when you're completely in your head about something regrettable you may have said or done. How much time are you spending in that head space rather than changing your negative thoughts into positive and focusing on what really matters most? That's what this episode is all about. Controlling your attitude to stay in the positive and focus on actions that align with your goals. Think about a time when something didn't go your way. Maybe you boarded a flight to find yourself in the middle seat or next to a crying infant. Did that put you in a bad mood? Your attitude is all about how you view the world. And, there are specific techniques that I teach to all of my clients, and personally practice, to be able to view any situation in a positive way and immediately change your state of mind. When things don't go as planned it's easy to get in your head and start beating yourself up. This is a vicious downward spiral and a scary place that we've all been. So, how do we change this vicious cycle? I have been on a journey to condition myself to align my behaviors to make sure that when things don't go as planned ... which happens OFTEN .. that I don't let it get me down and I keep moving forward. Read more: http://bit.ly/1PYjdZs ------------ I hope you got some helpful tips and new ideas from this podcast. To ensure you don't miss all my FREE training all you have to do is sign up here with your email http://bit.ly/TF-VideoTraining ------------ Connect with Tom on his other social channels: Facebook - facebook.com/CoachTomFerry Twitter - twitter.com/TomFerry YouTube - youtube.com/RealEstateTrainingTF Instagram - instagram.com/CoachTomFerry

Transcript

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0:00.0

For over 20 years I've dedicated my life to bringing you the very best selling marketing and business building strategies to keep your business thriving.

0:09.0

Get ready to experience the success you've been searching for.

0:13.4

Welcome to the Tom Ferry Show.

0:19.0

Hey everybody, welcome to the Tom Ferry Show, episode 45.

0:22.8

Have you ever met a person?

0:26.3

I call them energy-sucking vampires.

0:29.2

You know what I mean?

0:29.8

They walk in the room and literally the living plants die in their presence because they

0:35.9

bring such a negativity to the environment to the culture to the meeting whatever it

0:41.5

may be and then you meet other people probably like you

0:45.4

that when you walk in they light up the room it's like springtime all the plants are

0:49.9

growing and like you can hear birds chirping it's just unbelievable the difference

0:55.0

between that positive person and that negative person and I guess my question

0:59.6

for you today on the Tom Ferry show is do you know how to control it?

1:04.0

Because I don't know about you, but listen, we're all human beings.

1:06.7

We all have these experiences.

1:07.8

I've been on airplanes that didn't go the direction I wanted to go, or problems happened,

1:11.4

or a meeting went wrong, or a deal fell apart and

1:13.9

it's pretty easy to get into our head and start beating ourselves up and saying

1:19.3

all the wrong things and creating that downward spiral or am I the only person that's ever

1:25.0

out ahead that's a scary place to be. Well if you're anything like me I've been on

1:29.4

this quest this journey to condition myself to align my behaviors to make sure that when things don't go my way

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