Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

All right, let's get right to it. Here are three signs that you're dating the wrong person. As a

therapist slash relationship dating coach one of the questions I get often is,

John, am I dating the right person?

Am I dating the right person?

And listen, I don't know.

I can ask you questions and maybe you can come to your own you know

conclusion and so this is going to help you and of course there can be many

signs I just pick three and I purposely pick these three because

I think these three can be misconstrued right I think people can think that these are reasons why you're

dating the right person. So I do want to flip the script a little bit. All right,

so number one, a sign that you may be dating the wrong

person is that the attraction is explosive. Now listen, I used to believe, I'm looking around for a book because I want to hold it up.

In this book, it's not me, it's written by me, my partner Vanessa Bennett, we're both

therapists. One of the things that we talk about is how the

lightning in the bottle can actually be dysfunction. I used to believe because I

like you grew up watching

Rom coms and Disney movies and I used to be a hopeless romantic

I used to think that if the attraction is really strong, you know, the whole meeting

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