Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual or clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated.

Three signs that you are in an emotionally safe relationship.

I just want to say first that I know a lot of people put weight on chemistry attraction.

I mean I get it it's the first thing you feel right if you're attracted to someone

that produces dopamine and chemicals and a high and it's exciting and that feeling is going to probably override logic and so on our list of what we're looking for,

someone who has the ability to

provide an emotionally safe space

may not be at the top, you know,

it may be extra.

It's almost like, okay, first I have to be attracted to this person

and then as I get to know this person and peel the layers,

of course I want someone who has the ability to provide an emotionally safe space.

Here's the problem with that because you may be really attracted to this person and things may be going good and then you may

start compromising when you get to the place on your list where you're like

okay now can this person build something healthy?

And so I encourage you to put that on the top of your list.

If you're single and you're searching, I shouldn't say searching, it sounds like you're desperate.

If you're single and you're attracting and you're open to meeting people who you want to invest in, who deserve you,

make sure that on the top of your list,

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