Hi, my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.

I would you say are three secrets that millionaires who have it all have.

Whatever you focus on, whatever gets your attention gets results.

If you're listening right now and you're in great shape, it means your body is getting attention. You're eating the right food. You're working out. If your company's doing amazing, you have focus, attention and hunger. I mean, that's it. That's a great one too, is you have hunger for that business. You have hunger to be in great shape. Someone who's successful in every way,

they really know what's important and they say no to all the things that complicate that.

So I make myself a not-to-do list all the time and I obsess on knowing what I really want.

Most times people that are living with suffering or stress or worry, most of their life is focused on what they don't want. I don't want this employee to be annoying anymore. I don't want this to happen. I don't want this president anymore. I don't. I don't. And they don't have enough of knowing when crystal clear clarity where it is they want to go. So you ask me one thing in common. The most successful people I know,

if you got them in an elevator and say, hey man, what's the next year your life look like?

Bam, bam, you know this from all your interviews. We're doing this. We're starting this new company. We're doing this. You ask somebody who's struggling or not happy, they'll tell you what they don't want. Even if you ask them, and anybody listening, you could do this.

Ask somebody who's not doing well what they want out of life, and they'll tell you what they don't want.

They'll go, you know what, I don't want this

job anymore, even though you ask them what they want. But ask somebody who's successful in a lot of areas of your life, like, oh man, I want to get my new company off the ground. Like they know where it is they want to go. So I would say- Because then they can figure out, okay, what are the steps to getting there. Right. How do I do that? Right. So if you really know where you want,

you point your ship in that direction and successful people start saying no to all the things that don't serve them going in that direction. If it doesn't serve God, it doesn't serve a bigger, better version of you, it doesn't serve more income, a better relationship, doesn't serve your health. Successful people know how to say I'm not doing it. Or someone

talks in life, you're gone. And literally, when you do that in all areas of life, where do I want

to go with my health? Okay, anything doesn't serve that. I'm not doing it. Where do I want to go with my income? Okay, I'm going to focus on that. I'm going to point my ship in that direction. If it doesn't match, I'm throwing it away.

Where do I want with my intimacy and my passion?

Like, figure out, read the books, gain the capability.

So that's one.

Number two, way. Where do I want with my intimacy and my passion? Like, figure out, read the books, gain the

capability. So that's one. Number two is focus on the things that work in your life and be

the observer of the things that work. You come home in your relationship and you say something

and your wife or your husband lights up. Acknowledge that and do more of it. And then on the opposite

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