3 Secrets That Have Kept Us Married and Growing for 20 Years with Lori Harder
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 27 August 2025
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
Twenty years. That's how long Lori and I have been married, and I'll be honest, there were years we weren't sure we'd make it. Marriage is one of the hardest yet most rewarding things you'll ever build, and just like business, it takes growth, tough conversations, and the courage to keep reinventing. In this episode, Lori and I share the three things that got us here. If you're in year one, year ten, or wondering how to make it, especially through the tough seasons, tune in for tools to grow individually while still choosing each other, again and again.
HIGHLIGHTS
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Our funny (and slightly embarrassing) engagement story.
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The #1 reason we made it to the 20 year milestone.
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Why our "try it on for size" rule lets us grow individually and as a couple.
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The annual dream ritual that keeps us aligned.
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How we update our 5 year vision (and how you can too).
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | We've had years, not one, like multiple years where we weren't sure we were going to make it. |
| 0:04.7 | Oh, do we get divorced? |
| 0:05.7 | Is this it? |
| 0:06.3 | Is this where it's at? |
| 0:07.6 | And because of some of these things we talked about, we made it through. |
| 0:17.0 | Welcome, everybody, to the Chris Harder Show, where we are making you unapologetic about your pursuit of success, knowing that when good people like you make good money, they can then do great things. |
| 0:27.1 | My name is Chris Harder and several times per week. I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes, and every single tool, trick, and skill set you need to grow your business, grow your money mindset, and to grow your wealth to |
| 0:38.0 | levels that you have never reached before. I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've |
| 0:42.2 | got the experience, the connections, and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful. |
| 0:46.8 | And I'm lifting the curtain to reveal it all to you in an effort to help put you in a position |
| 0:51.8 | of abundance so great that you can then be as generous as possible. |
| 0:56.5 | So let's lock arms and let's get started. |
| 1:02.4 | And we're back. |
| 1:03.5 | With another episode of He Said, She Said. |
| 1:05.0 | This week, Lori and I are hitting 20 years married. |
| 1:10.1 | Now, before we go into why and how we got to 20 years, |
| 1:14.0 | because that's what we're going to talk about, like as entrepreneurs, as dreamers, as a couple |
| 1:17.7 | of crazy people, how in the world did we make 20 years? And how don't it go so quick? |
| 1:21.0 | It goes so quick. Before we do that, we are now halfway sold out for our VIP in-person mastermind where you get to spend two days at our home masterminding with nine other incredible business owners. |
| 1:35.9 | So it's super intimate. |
| 1:37.2 | We're all working on each other's businesses. |
| 1:39.7 | The first one was a smash hit. |
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