We put a post on Instagram asking men, why don't you want to commit?

Here were some of the comments that men made. Travel and treasures said,

I'm scared of losing my freedom, which is a very apt comment from travel and treasures.

Adrian says loss of independence and loss of self-identity over time.

Harris says,

I always feared that the other person will completely take away my me time.

Dennis says the fear of losing out to a better relationship yet to come by committing fully to this person.

If she will stay with me in bad times

for example less income from the business lots of different reasons I it's funny

we had written a kind of format for this video here three reasons why men are afraid of

commitment and of course there's more than three but we were like if there were three really big three reasons why men are afraid of commitment.

And of course there's more than three, but we were like, if there were three really big ones,

what would they be? And the comments we got from men in response to that post on Instagram

exactly correlated with what we had for this video.

Here goes, three reasons why men are afraid of commitment,

and in each case, what can you do to circumvent that fear?

Number one, the fear that I will make the wrong choice.

Now this is a fear borne out of the feeling that the stakes are so high, and of course they are high.

The choosing of a right partner is one of the most important decisions that we will ever make.

And we are indoctrinated with that. People are indoctrinated with the idea that this is incredibly special.

Marriage is so special. It's so important, It's so big. And even if you have

been told over and over again that marriage is scary, then the idea of marriage being scary and a

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