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The Art of Charm

3 Questions to Build Intimacy & Deepen Relationships | Topaz Adizes

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2024

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we tackle the art of building deep connections with Topaz Adizes. Topaz is an Emmy award-winning director, writer, and experienced design architect. With a background in philosophy from UC Berkeley and Oxford University, Topaz has made significant contributions to the fields of intimacy and human connection through his groundbreaking project, The And. His work has been showcased at prestigious festivals such as Cannes and Sundance, and featured in top publications like The New Yorker and The New York Times. Topaz is also the author of 12 Questions for Love: A Guide to Intimate Conversations and Deeper Relationships. In today’s episode, Topaz Adizes shares why questions are so powerful for creating deep bonds, how to create space for intimate conversations in our lives, when to bring logic in to deepen a relationship conversation, and the secret to developing emotional articulation with your partner. What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 Who is Topaz Adizes, and how can his insights on communication and relationships transform your career and personal life? How can asking the right questions unlock deeper connections and enhance your leadership skills? What’s the secret to creating a space where your team or partner feels safe to be vulnerable and authentic? Surprising revelations from over 1200 intimate conversations – 11:00 What surprising revelations did Topaz uncover from over 1200 intimate conversations, and how can they apply to your high-stakes professional environment? Practical tips for emotional articulation – 20:15 How can mastering emotional articulation make you a more effective leader and improve your team’s performance? What are the 12 questions that can revolutionize your personal and professional relationships, and how should you use them? Real-life applications that will change your life – 32:29 How have others used Topaz’s methods to transform their relationships and careers, and what can you learn from their experiences? How can you create intentional spaces for deep conversations that foster trust and innovation within your team? Lessons on communication that no one tells us – 45:11 What techniques can you use to enhance your communication skills and build stronger connections with your team and loved ones? How do different cultures approach intimate conversations, and what can you learn from their methods to improve your own interactions? Why is it crucial to ask better questions in your professional and personal life, and how can this practice accelerate your career growth? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Sometimes you're in a fight with a partner or they're going through something.

0:03.4

They're going through something and you just want to fix it.

0:05.6

They're going through a big challenge, they're lashing out at you or something, but

0:09.8

you want to fix it. And so you step in and you're trying to fix it, you're trying to help them through it.

0:15.7

And the question I ask myself is I realize I can't heal them. I can't actually fix this for them.

0:20.0

So the question isn't to ask myself, how can I fix this for them?

0:23.0

The question is how what is the space that I'm holding for them so it's most conducive

0:29.0

for them to find their way through it?

0:31.0

Welcome to the Articharm Podcast, where we break down the science of powerful communication

0:37.8

and winning mindset so you have the cheat code to succeed with people.

0:41.3

Every episode is jam-packed with actionable steps to unlock the hidden superpowers inside

0:46.1

of you.

0:47.1

Level up with us each week by listening to interviews with the best in business, psychology, and relationships. We distill thousands of hours of research

0:54.4

in the most effective tools and the latest science

0:57.0

so you can start winning today.

0:58.5

Let's face it.

0:59.5

In order to be seen and heard,

1:01.1

your communication needs to cut through the noise and we're going to

1:04.3

show you how I'm a jay successfully recovered introvert entrepreneur and self-development junkie and

1:09.9

I'm Johnny Zouback former touring musician promoter rock roller, and co-founder here at the Art of Charm.

1:15.6

And for the last 15 years, we've trained thousands of top performers and teams from every background.

1:21.3

We have dedicated our lives to teaching men and women all

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