Hi everybody, welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and

today I'm going to be sharing with you three questions to ask yourself when you're feeling anxious in dating. Before we get started with that,

I wanted to let you know that I found a website where I can see all the reviews that you post.

Right now, when I check my phone, I can only see the ones that are posted in the USA. And I found

this website that shows me all of them from different countries.

And it's been really cool to see the other reviews that I haven't seen that have been

posted months or weeks ago.

And I just want to say thank you to everybody who has left a review on this podcast so

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people be exposed to this work and to my podcast. And it just really makes me happy. So thank you so

much for listening and being here. And let's get started with the three questions. So the first question

is, what does my soul want me to remember right now?

So often when we're in a situation where we're feeling anxious or insecure, we are blocked from all

of our wisdom. And the first thing that we try to do is either try to manipulate and control the external circumstances

or we try to get wisdom or comfort from external sources like listening to a podcast or reading a book

or watching a YouTube video or asking 10 friends or asking your parents. And we forget that we have so much wisdom within us already

and so often if we're still and we take the time and we ask ourselves this question, we end up

finding the exact wisdom, advice, or comfort that we need. And when you do this repeatedly and you ask yourself this question

or you even journal on this question, you build a sense of inner trust and confidence that you

don't build if you always run to other people for the answers first. Very often in my own experience

when I ask myself this question question the thought that arises or the

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