3 Psychological Traps Ruining Your Best Moments (& They All Start with ‘E’)
Chasing Excellence
Ben Bergeron & Patrick Cummings
4.8 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 17 January 2025
⏱️ 26 minutes
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Summary
The 3 Big Questions We’re Answering:
1. What role does ego play in limiting our growth and happiness?
2. How do expectations alter our perception of reality and impact our happiness?
3. Why is the pursuit of end games a trap, and how can we embrace the journey instead?
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| 0:00.0 | We believe health is the foundation that unlocks freedom. |
| 0:07.2 | The freedom to live fully, to be an asset and not a burden, and to chase what truly matters. |
| 0:13.5 | Through daily practices and proven frameworks, we are here to help you build deep health, |
| 0:19.3 | find lasting peace, and live with your heart on fire. |
| 0:24.3 | Welcome to the chase. |
| 0:26.6 | Welcome back, my friends. |
| 0:27.7 | Welcome back to chasing excellence. |
| 0:29.0 | Ben and also, hi, Heather. |
| 0:31.0 | Heather's here, everybody. |
| 0:32.5 | Hi, Heather. |
| 0:33.5 | Hi, Heather. |
| 0:35.6 | Heather, you have started writing again, and it's wonderful. H.B. Unfiltered. It's a miracle. |
| 0:41.5 | Took a long break, but you're back. And so I'm pumped for that. I always loved your blog in years past. |
| 0:47.6 | And so we wanted to bring you on to talk about one of your blogs. I think you put it out maybe December called the Three Evil E ease. And you wrote, these are the three things |
| 0:54.8 | that I feel severely limit our level of happiness. There are three things that leave us endlessly |
| 0:58.8 | walking around, wishing and wanting more than we already have. And so the three evil ease we're going to |
| 1:04.4 | talk about today. Egos, expectations, and end games. So I want to dive right in. Okay. Ego. What do you mean when you say ego and why is it one of the three evil ease? |
| 1:16.6 | I think that ego is like the overprotective parent. It's kind of like the thing in our heads that's just saying, no, you're better than that person, no matter what they said |
| 1:28.3 | or what they did or what you did. And you deserve that spot on the team or you deserve that |
| 1:33.5 | job that you applied for. It's them. It's not you. It's kind of like the parent that doesn't want |
| 1:39.5 | their child to get hurt at all by normal life things. It's like our defense mechanism. And I think it's like |
| 1:47.1 | everything else. If you don't allow yourself the room to be imperfect, then you can't really grow. |
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