My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there.

Just to bring it out. This is what

compels me to compel them. And I will do it by whatever means necessary. Welcome to the Black

Girls Hill podcast where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and resolve trauma

and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

Every episode, we will talk about advice you can apply today to bring unhealthy patterns and grow

in your self-work. I'm Sheena Lachay, love addiction coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls' Heal.

I am so, so happy to be with you today.

I do hope that you are enjoying our series on codependency if you are joining us in the

middle of the series.

And if you were looking for something to help you with the topic at hand,

welcome, welcome. I do hope that today's episode assist you in breaking patterns of codependency,

especially in how it looks with your financial health. So I know, I know in the lesson that's about to

follow, I give a full intro into why we need to talk about financial codependency. But for the

sake of the series, I decided to include financial codependency this lesson because I know that this is

one of the main markers of the ways of the women that I serve act out their codependency with their

loved ones. So in addition to maybe

mentally, emotionally, spiritually not being able to have clear boundaries with other people, taking

on their burdens, what is not your responsibility, the inability to actually put down limits when you

are starting to be affected by what other people

are taking from you or if you're giving a little bit too much, that happens as well in your

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