286: SEX IS A PART OF MARRIAGE

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2015

⏱️ 31 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In your marriage there are six forms of intimacy that build your foundation. Each are vital to a successful marriage, a marriage based on safety and trust. And, sexual intimacy is one of them. When your needs or those of your spouse are not being met a few things start to happen… You wonder why you are married in the first place and start thinking about getting out. You begin to get resentful and withdraw from the marriage. You don’t see the harm in look toward other things to fulfill you (pornography, erotica, emotional affairs, physical affairs, etc.) since your spouse isn’t doing anything. This is not the marriage that you want to live in. It’s not healthy. It’s a relationship filled with... anger frustration sadness resentment disappointment withdrawal loneliness You can have an amazing sex life. You can learn how to please each other. Learning anything new takes time, patience, an open mind and a willingness to learn. On this week's show Tony and Alisa share why sex is a part of marriage (no matter if it's stagnant or vibrant) and how the two can make your sexual intimacy burn once again. EPISODE SPONSOR | He Zigs, She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path I got married 7 months ago and as a newlywed I can honestly say there is no play book or instruction manual to prepare you for this thing called marriage. He Zigs, She Zags has been our play book when it comes to our communication. I just wanted to message you guys and say THANK YOU. You are making a difference in our marriage! —Chris C., Indiana 19 Questions to Amazing Sex with Your Spouse 140 - Scheduling Sex Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.
0:04.6	We're being busy as overdone.
0:06.1	Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're
0:10.6	going to get some.
0:11.6	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful
0:14.7	wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex,
0:21.5	love, and commitment.
0:23.1	Give us a call at 858, 876, 563.
0:27.3	That's 858, 876, 563.
0:32.2	In today's show, we talk about the fact that sex is supposed to be part of your marriage.
0:38.8	You almost said that without laughing like it just kind of tickles your funny phone to even
0:42.4	just hear that it does
0:43.7	well we're gonna be talking about this because I want you guys to think about this
0:46.3	quote that we're gonna open up the show with and and that quote is you didn't
0:51.1	get married to be celibate and that was from I said that
0:55.6	last week when I was reading an email and I'm gonna share with you the email
0:58.2	where I you know this quote came from but before we do that one of the highlights of the show for us each and every week is reading
1:04.7	a hug from you, the audience, sharing how one extraordinary marriage has impacted your
1:09.7	marriage.
1:10.7	And this week's hug is brought to you by one extraordinary marriage, he's dig, she zags, get your communication on the same path.
1:16.0	This could be you. Remember how you felt when you first met your partner?
1:21.0	How close you were, like like your soul mates. Now imagine
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.