This is the Terry Cole show and as you might have guessed I'm your host Terry Cole

For over two decades I've been a licensed psychotherapist, love and boundaries expert, and I'm also the

founder of the Real Love Revolution and Boundary Boot Camp.

On this show I'll bring you simple strategies based on practical psychology, inspiring expert interviews,

and my own insights and observations from my time on the front lines in the fascinating world of entertainment, empowerment, and mental health.

Now let's get going with today's episode.

Well, hello and welcome to the Terry Cole show. I am your host

Terry Cole and I'm super psyched that you've decided to hang out with me today. I

don't know about you but being locked down from the emails that I've been getting and the comments on social media,

a lot of relationships are really struggling in the past 10 months.

Everything has changed. Couples who used to spend maybe more weekends

together rather than all day every day are now you know quadrupling the amount of

time that they spend together and doing it

from the point of view of sort of being forced to like we didn't get to the point

of like oh let's make this decision we obviously we're in global pandemic still are and some

couples are more flexible than others but a lot of people are unhappy. So the

question I'm getting repeatedly is I can't decide should I stay or should I go is it time to leave and even if you decide it's time to leave then the person is stuck in the situation of who wants to move during a global

pandemic, nobody. So let's just start from, if you're in this situation, I wanted to share with you how many people are also in a very similar boat, but I got to say feeling this way doesn't necessarily

mean the relationship is over. Anytime we feel pain in a relationship it tells us that something

needs our attention and maybe that's exactly what is going on in your

relationship if you're feeling this way.

So I've come up with a little guide.

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