Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

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All right, welcome to episode 281. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who does thank you so much for listening.

Thank you for supporting me. Thank you for sharing the podcast with friends for hitting the group chat with it, DMing it to your friend who might need it.

That really does mean a lot to me and hopefully it means a lot to your friend as well. You know, you're a good friend when you do that.

And so I'm sure they love you just as much as I do. And today I've got a simple episode. This episode is for you.

If you've ever found yourself wondering, maybe even right now wondering asking yourself, am I to picky?

Am I too picky? Am I passing up on people or experiences that might be enough for me? That might be good enough for me to picky?

And so I want to address this because I think I have a way of like rationalizing this that can be helpful here and offer you clarity when you feel yourself start to wonder or start to doubt yourself and wonder.

Am I too picky? So to start, I'll just get right into it. I want you to ask yourself a question in my life. Am I picky or am I selective?

And I say this because the question, are you picky or are you selective? There's a big difference between the two. And with a bit of introspection, I think you'll realize that you're actually selective.

And that's a really, really good quality. And that's a quality that you should never doubt. It's something that I don't think you should ever let go of.

So let's go with that. You, my friend, are selective. You're selective in who you give your energy to, who you date, who you decide to seriously date.

In every sense of this idea of giving your energy and commitment to someone, you're selective about it, right? And I want to do an entire episode on this idea of being selective because you're more than just picky.

And recognizing this, I think we'll give you the confidence to never doubt yourself. And you know, to start a while back, I heard something someone said this or I read it somewhere, I forget where, but it's always been stuck in my head.

And it really immense this idea that you're not just picky, you're selective. And when that's the case, there's never anything to doubt.

But I heard the saying that life isn't about chasing love. It's about creating it. I like that. Of course, I like that. You know shocker that I like that. Right? I talk about chasing all the time.

Life isn't about chasing love. It's about creating it. And I really like this because when you're selective and you recognize that you're selective, that's exactly what you're doing.

It's exactly what you're doing. So being selective, it's different from being picky. You're selective and you should be proud of it. And the difference is as follows, being selective means that you know what you want.

It means you know what you deserve. It means you just don't jump at the first thing that smiles at you or that's nice to you or that's good enough for you.

It means that you're building from experience. You're creating from experience. And picky being picky is like version 1.0 of that.

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