Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

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you are meant to be, leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go.

All right, welcome to episode 278. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who

does thank you for listening. Thank you for supporting me and I figured I would just hop right into this

episode and if you follow me on Instagram or you listen to the podcast regularly, you might notice that I'm a big fan

about talking about what I think is attractive in other people. It's the opinion you never asked for and here I am with it.

I've done posts, I've done podcasts on what I think makes someone attractive, what I think makes you attractive an attractive person.

And I do this because for one, I've definitely grown a lot in the past 10 years and I've realized that there is so much more to a person than the way that they look.

The maybe you've noticed this as well. I mean, how many times have you been like, wow, that person is really attractive, but then you get to know them and suddenly that means nothing

anymore or maybe you've even dated someone because you were so physically attracted to them, but that faded because there was nothing else there, right?

We've all realized this in some sense. We've realized how important it is to have a different measure of someone's worth or even like worthiness to be in your life and you in their life.

There has to be something more. And personally, I've realized just how important it is to not not think with whatever it is that's in your pants to learn to evaluate people based on something that is anything.

But physical. And this is so important because I think this is the key to not ending up in a situation that you don't want to be and not ending up in a relationship that is mostly driven by looks or physical attraction because that's a shaky foundation for any relationship.

But it's also the key to not comparing yourself how you look to other people and then doing the inevitably unhealthy mental practice of thinking you're less worthy because you don't look like that Instagram model or that Jack dude at the jam or whatever, right?

I think it's so important to for all of us to learn to be able to evaluate other people and yourself by something that is more meaningful than appearance and to do it not because it's the, you know, quote mature thing to do.

But because you've learned that it's actually very important to you, like on a personal level and not even like important like let's go up and watch like essential like it's essential.

I forget what the term is, but there's like this term that describes someone who is only truly attracted to someone else if they are emotionally attracted to that person first.

And I think that's kind of dope. I'm certainly not saying you need to be that way, but I think there's something to be said about knowing what truly makes someone attractive sexy even for the title of this podcast and then making that a priority, making that important and essential in your life.

Being attracted to that equally as much as someone's physical appearance. And to my point, I've done episodes on this before on the things that I think make you attractive that I'm sure you'd probably agree make someone attractive as well, you know, things like acts of kindness and being graceful and open and vulnerable.

I've done episodes on how being attractive means you don't become the negative things that have happened to you in life that if you've been hurt, you don't hurt others that if you've been with a dishonest person, you don't become dishonest yourself and so on and so forth. I think that is incredibly attractive because it's resilient.

But you know, and I even did an episode titled to be hot, you just need to act hot and I stand by all those things. What you do is what makes you attractive what you say how you treat others is what makes you attractive, but I've got another thought here and it's what I want to talk about briefly in this episode.

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