#277: What to Do If Your Child Is Sexually Abused
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 2 September 2019
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
Child sexual abuse can happen anywhere and predators are typically someone a child already trusts. If your child is abused, what is the first thing you should do? What constitutes abuse? When do you report it? Juli and her guest tackle these tough questions and more in this Java with Juli.
Guest: Dr. Debi Grebenik
Mentioned:
- National Children's Advocacy Center
- God's Healing Stinks (blog)
- Java with Juli #273: Tell Someone You're Broken
- Java with Juli #273: Bravery Means Being the Real You
- Java with Juli #257: How Trauma Affects our Bodies & Souls
- Java with Juli #63: Healing From Childhood Sexual Abuse
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | This is Julie Slatery and I hope you'll join me at the Authentic Inimacy Reclaim Conference right here in Akron, Ohio on October 4th and 5th. |
| 0:09.0 | At this conference, you'll be challenged to take a second look at what you've learned about sexuality, |
| 0:14.0 | both from the culture and from the church, in light of God's Holy Word. |
| 0:18.0 | You'll also hear powerful testimonies that will prompt you, whether you're single or married, |
| 0:22.9 | to consider your own commitment to sexual integrity, |
| 0:26.0 | and you'll be equipped to walk with hurting friends. |
| 0:29.0 | Get your ticket at Authenticinoc.com slash reclaim. |
| 0:32.2 | Thank you. Hi, friends. This is Julie Slattery, and I'm so glad you've joined me for another episode of Job with Julie. This podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. |
| 0:57.0 | Well, our topic today is a difficult one. What do you do as a parent when you've discovered that your child has been abused? |
| 1:06.0 | The headlines are fuller of accounts of childhood sexual abuse, but sometimes we need to be reminded that behind every headline is a family. |
| 1:16.0 | And as we agree with you, we also want to equip you. |
| 1:19.9 | We've recently received several emails at AuthenticNC from parents who've discovered that their children have been sexually violated. |
| 1:28.7 | And we're going to answer some of those emails in today's conversation. You know, abuse cannot be erased from a child's |
| 1:35.2 | memory, but it can be handled in a way that minimizes future trauma and anxiety. And that's exactly |
| 1:41.5 | what we want to equip you with today. My guest, Dr. Debbie Grubenick, has devoted her professional life to helping traumatized children and their parents. |
| 1:51.4 | She spent decades working with in the foster care system, meeting with parents in her private practice and teaching trauma-informed care to professionals. |
| 2:00.5 | Well, today she works with Alia, an organization |
| 2:03.1 | that is focused on transforming the foster care system. Debbie and I will talk about what actually |
| 2:09.1 | constitutes childhood sexual abuse, and what are the signs or red flags that you might see in your |
| 2:14.1 | child? When should you report abuse? And how can you be diligent but not fearful as you raise your young children in a culture |
| 2:22.8 | where the opportunity for unwanted exposure to sex can be found around every corner? |
| 2:29.0 | Where we're going to be talking primarily about sexual abuse, the principles that Debbie is |
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