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I Have ADHD Podcast

272 From Denial to Recognition: Let's Talk About Trauma and ADHD

I Have ADHD Podcast

Kristen Carder

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.83.1K Ratings

🗓️ 16 July 2024

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

For the longest time, I denied having any trauma, but through therapy and a ton of research, I’ve come to realize its significant impact on my life and my ADHD.
In today's episode, I discuss what trauma is and provide definitions and resources, especially focusing on Complex PTSD and its links to ADHD. One of the key takeaways is understanding how our experiences and the way we handle them can shape our mental health. For example, proper support and validation can prevent traumatic outcomes, as highlighted by trauma expert Peter Levine.
I also delve into various types of trauma and the importance of creating safe environments. This is particularly crucial for neurodivergent individuals like us, as unhealed emotional wounds can have profound effects on how we show up in the world. I even share a personal story about my son to illustrate how validation, support, and protection can prevent lasting trauma.
A significant part of our conversation revolves around the ongoing debate about whether ADHD is caused by trauma or genetics. While unaddressed trauma can mimic ADHD symptoms, it’s crucial to differentiate and understand both. We explore Complex PTSD and how emotional flashbacks can resemble the ADHD trait of emotional dysregulation. I also talk about the trauma responses—fight, flight, freeze, and fawn—and share my personal experiences, including how I’ve often suppressed my true self for safety.
Finally, I recommend some fantastic resources such as books by Dr. Bruce Perry and Pete Walker, and even suggest trauma assessments. I can’t emphasize enough the importance of seeking therapy with a trauma-informed therapist. Addressing our past wounds is essential for personal growth and overall well-being. This episode is a deep dive into a subject that’s both personal and universal. Thank you for joining me in this exploration. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and support systems available to help you through this.
What Happened to You
Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving - Free with a Spotify Subscription
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Questionnaire
Multidimensional ADHD Symptom Profiles
Toxic Family Test
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0:00.0

Welcome to the I have ADHD podcast where it's all about education, encouragement and

0:11.2

coaching for adults with ADHD.

0:13.5

I'm your host Kristen Carter and I have ADHD.

0:17.5

Let's chat about the frustrations, humor, and challenges

0:21.1

of adulting, relationships, working, and achieving with this neurodevelopmental disorder.

0:27.0

I'll help you understand your unique brain, unlock your potential, and move from point A to point B.

0:33.3

Hey what's up? This is Kristen Carter and you are listening to the I have HD

0:41.7

podcast. I am medicated, I am regulated, and I'm

0:47.6

ready to roll. I'm so glad to be with you today on this hot and humid day. It is a balmy 95 degrees in Pennsylvania and I am here for it. I was made for this

0:59.8

weather. I love feeling like I'm living in an oven. It's the best. It's the best feeling. Yeah,

1:07.2

welcome to the pod. We're gonna have a chat today about trauma and I am

1:12.0

nervous because this is a lot and I've been putting off having a conversation

1:19.7

about trauma and

1:25.0

while I know that I am equipped to have this conversation

1:30.0

I still understand the brevity of my position and the weight that it

1:37.1

carries as being someone that you tune into for information about ADHD and mental health and I just don't take it lightly.

1:47.3

This conversation is really difficult.

1:49.8

It's very tender for me personally and it's something that has completely changed and

1:57.0

shaped my worldview in the last couple of years. I have always identified as someone who does not have any trauma.

2:06.0

So we're going to start there.

2:09.0

I've always identified as someone who doesn't have trauma and I have always up until the last couple years

2:16.0

thought my gosh I grew up in such a healthy family I'm so lucky and to have that

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