Hello, hello, and welcome to the new mindset who this podcast my name is case Kenny at case.cannyon

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leave your comfort zone and live a fulfilling and purposeful life. Let's go.

All right, welcome to episode 261. Hello, my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of new mindset who deaths and as always, thank you so much for listening.

Thank you for supporting me. Thank you for riding with me for being an internet friend for reading what I ride and listening to what I have to say. It's unreal. So thank you so much for that. And I'd actually like to start by giving you some credit.

You know, it's obviously an amazing thing to have people support me and tell me how you know great my perspective is and how much, you know, my content has helped them.

That's fantastic and I'm so grateful for that. But I want you to give yourself some credit to you know you listening and my content helping you that only happens when you are hungry for change when you are eager to change when you are willing to change when you're willing to listen and expand your mindset.

And that's all you my friend. I'm just I'm just the guy. I just ended up, but you're doing something with it. And that's really freaking cool to me. So I want you to show yourself some love.

You know, the fact that you take the time to listen to some random guy talk about his feelings and mindsets and confidence and dating.

That means that you're committed to doing more to being better to loving yourself. So I say kudos to you. You know, thank you for always giving me kudos, but kudos to you. You know, you're pretty freaking great.

And I'm a big fan of yours. So give yourself a nice pat on the back there because you deserve it. And I've got something for you today that I think will be helpful.

And I'd be honored if you rolled with it as well and applied it in your life so that you can be happier and healthier and more fulfilled in your dating life specifically here.

And this is the idea of being single. And if you follow me, you listen at any any cadence really, you know that I'm all in on the power of being single and my concept of single being your superpower.

But I want to take this a step further. Maybe you've read my book, singled your superpower. Maybe you've realized what I have that your single years are these formative, amazing years that are, you know, it's a time to be celebrated, not look down upon, not avoided.

These are years where, you know, you should be proud of yourself, not ashamed of yourself for where you feel less or that you're falling behind or anything like that.

You should be proud of those years. So let's say you're rocking with me, you're nodding your head, you're like, case, yeah, I feel that I did the book. I love it.

Let's say you're rocking with me, you're living this mindset of single is your superpower. Well, then eventually you're going to get to the question of, you know, what's next, when should you decide to step back to the table and get serious about finding your person?

Like, what does that look like? Where do you draw the line between being super, super protective of your peace and your time and diving into being single and proud of that?

Between that and saying, okay, you know, this time has served its purpose for me. It's time to rock and roll. It's time to find my person.

So I have one specific thought on this that has been really helpful to me and I think it'll help you. It's just one question and I think it's powerful because it's necessary to make this decision in life.

It's a decision you have to make a decision. You're either looking to date or you're not. There's no living in the gray. There's no just letting the wind tell you which way to go.

And of course, there's something to be said very much so for, you know, just going with the flow, no pressure that if you find someone who might be a match, you go with it, right?

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