256. Is dating becoming an idol for you?.
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 12 September 2024
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
In this episode we chat....
- Why it's VERY HARMFUL to "see" how things are going and "wait it out" when you KNOW he is a walking dealbreaker
- How to STOP undermining your dealbreakers when you come across the "nice guy" the guy that seems like "the one"
- What it looks like to have dating/the marriage thing/the man thing be an IDOL in your life
- The dangers of IDOLIZING a man and therefore putting him in God's place
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| 0:16.0 | Hello and welcome back to the Self Love Fix podcast my name is Beatrice and I'm your host and in this week's episode we are talking all about what happens when you put men dating men, marriage, all of it on a pedestal, aka you make idols out of them. |
| 0:19.0 | And I actually, this is actually pre-recorded from a live |
| 0:22.0 | that I did over on |
| 0:23.4 | Instagram if you don't follow me over on Instagram at the self-love fix what are you |
| 0:27.3 | doing okay now let's get back in okay do not welcome everybody welcome welcome do not, welcome everybody, welcome. |
| 0:33.9 | Do not make the dating thing an idol. |
| 0:36.0 | I just posted something not that long ago |
| 0:40.0 | along this line, having to do with deal breakers |
| 0:42.4 | and how I actually think when you. along this |
| 0:45.0 | line line, |
| 0:48.0 | line, well, first of all, this conversation is going to be around deal breakers. |
| 0:49.0 | I intend for it to be around deal breakers, |
| 0:51.0 | but I'm going to talk about it from the angle like what's |
| 0:54.0 | actually happening when you relinquish your deal breakers from a spiritual perspective |
| 0:58.2 | and when I say spiritual I mean Christian perspective and there's many the post that I just |
| 1:05.0 | I just posted you'll know what I'm choosing to do it this way. |
| 1:08.0 | And if you saw the post that I just posted you'll know what I'm talking about. |
| 1:11.0 | I believe relinquishing your deal |
| 1:13.5 | breakers is a form of idolatry and if you're like what let me tell you why |
| 1:19.1 | when you here's the thing when it comes to idols it's so funny because most people when they hear idols and I was like this for a long time |
| 1:26.7 | You think of something like an actual like a statue a fixture of something and on an altar something you like physical that you worship or whatever and I don't can literally be anything anything that you put above yourself anything that anything that you give your veneration, your adoration, your |
| 1:47.1 | everything to. And people do this with dating, they do this. I've done this with dating, |
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