I think there are very sinister manipulators out there and then I think there are very unconscious people

who run around doing a lot of damage because they're just looking for a thrill but they really have they don't have the emotional

maturity or the discipline or the ability to truly open up to a relationship.

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Well, welcome everybody to the Love Life podcast.

I'm here with Audrey.

Hello.

And we thought we would cover the subject today of how early to ask someone if they are seeing someone else.

There was a question we had in from one of our love life

members and you answered this beautifully on your coaching session with all of our

love life members and I thought we could kind of talk about parts of your

answer today this member of ours said can I ask someone if they're seeing

someone else after being on only two dates with them.

So where does this instinct come from, two dates in, to want to ask someone if they're seeing someone else at that stage.

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