And so now the person providing that safety really has a hold on you.

And all someone needs to do is come and tell you the right things and do the right things

and that is going to temporarily and dangerously soothe that room. Hey everyone welcome to another episode of Love Life. Today we are talking about

those early stages of dating where you decide you like someone and then it feels

like that person singularly holds the key to all of our emotions,

our happiness, our pain, our obsession.

How do we control this for ourselves so that we can be the best version of ourselves in early

dating and so that we can attract healthy partners?

Because one of the things we talk about today is how that early obsession from us actually

attracts the very people who hurt us the most.

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