#243: No One Sees Me in My Pain (Part Two) • The Work of Byron Katie®
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🗓️ 22 January 2026
⏱️ 62 minutes
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(Part 2 of 2) Matthew, my guest in this episode, is in a lot of pain and thinks that people are uncaring, that no one sees him or meets him in his pain. As he questions his thoughts, which have been with him since childhood, many things begin to shift. Join us as we sit in this powerful inquiry. Let's do The Work!
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| 0:00.0 | Hello everyone and welcome to part two. I love that you joined us as we sit with our teacher today, Matthew, and oh, are you in for a treat? |
| 0:18.7 | Not much more to say about that. |
| 0:20.9 | So let's meet Matthew in his experience of people don't meet him in his pain. |
| 0:28.6 | They don't get what pain he's in. |
| 0:31.1 | This is powerful and welcome to self-inquiry. |
| 0:35.2 | Let's move into part two, Matthew and his work. |
| 0:42.3 | Okay, number four, in that situation, sitting on the mat, |
| 0:45.3 | would you need to be happy? |
| 0:47.3 | Would you need them to think safe, feel, and do? |
| 0:49.3 | Number four is about how to be happy. |
| 0:52.3 | Number three was about advice. |
| 0:54.7 | Number two was how to live what you want in that situation. |
| 0:59.9 | So now we're into happiness. |
| 1:02.3 | Number four, to be happy, I need them. |
| 1:06.3 | I need them to sit with and hold me. |
| 1:10.6 | I need them to feel my pain. I need them to really see me hold me. I need them to feel my pain. |
| 1:13.3 | I need them to really see me. |
| 1:14.7 | It's a bit of the similar stuff. |
| 1:16.1 | Some of it's shifting now into like, I can see how like I would need them to be in conversation with me and to share in joyful moments. |
| 1:30.5 | And I need them to understand why I am the way I am. |
| 1:35.1 | Well, I think you're getting a look into that. |
| 1:38.7 | Yeah. |
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