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Hi Jamie, thank you so much for this podcast. It really helps women who are waiting all across the world

and thank you so much for what you do. So for today's question, my question is a little backstory. I was on social media. I saw someone who looked attractive, so I clicked on his page and he is very

devout Christian open about his faith very very open and just puts himself out

there in the name of Christ which is so attractive. I think we would

kind of be a good match I'm not really sure but I truly just want to get to know

him as a friend first but he has a substantial amount of followers and influence.

I know you and your husband met in person, but then it kind of flourished via social media.

So what would be your advice to someone who has far less of a social media presence looking to develop that friendship

and that relationship via social media. Do I just give it up to God and let him

take the reins or take matters into my own hands.

So this is a fantastic question and I'm so glad that you asked me this and I want to just

go ahead and jump to the immediate answer at the end when you said do I give it up to God or do I take this into my own hands?

I'm not saying to necessarily take this in your own hands, but I am saying that this is going to be a mixture of the two things

because I think a lot of times when we, especially as Christians, when we say,

okay, I want to give this over to God, then we kind of, I'm not saying that you're saying this at all,

but we can kind of be like, okay, well, this is where I'm gonna just hide in the house

and just allow the

guy to pursue me. But you guys have heard me say this before, unless he's the UPS guy, it's not

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