My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition coach and

Trauma Specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. I hope that you were doing well and thriving wherever you are.

So today I'm going to be talking about three ways to not be jaded and love.

If you have had a series of heartbreaks, if you have been consistently underwhelmed,

if you have put your heart on the line and it's not worked out for you, this episode is for you.

This episode is inspired by the roadblocks that I feel a lot of the clients. The woman that I get the pleasure of working with

fit when it comes to attempting to be vulnerable, attempting to connecting with people

that they are the best fit for them only to find that they are not what they wanted and needed.

And that type of heartbreak is really old.

And you go back and forth between wondering is it them is it me is it

is it really something that I'm attracting or that I'm attracted to and I keep doing my best

to break the cycle and it keeps happening so I'm not even going to try anymore.

And it can make you want to give up on the process and give up on just really having that hope.

And I know I've talked a lot in the previous episodes,

especially over the last six to eight months,

...