239: Two Ways Pursuers Can Calm Down & Love Their Withdrawing Partner

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 July 2020

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Pursuers have beautiful motives to push toward their partners - wanting more connection, more intimacy and more sex. But they often feel rejected and are told they are too much which escalates the cycle. Learn two things that help the pursuer calm down. 1) Remind yourself that you have good intentions to create change. 2) Use an image of someone who made you feel safe - a therapist, parent, grandparent or even of yourself comforting a younger version of yourself. See how taking a wider lens including both peoples vulnerabilities can stop the pursuer-distance cycle. Subscribe to get all the latest episodes! Dedicated to Dr. Jeanne Yorke. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.5	Amazing things that pursuers can do other than getting angry and critical.
0:40.3	Welcome to 4 Play Radio, Couples and Sex Therapy. I'm Lori Watson, your sex therapist.
0:49.0	And I'm George Fallon, your couples therapist.
0:51.0	And we are passionate about talking about sex and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.
0:57.0	Our mission is to help our audience develop a healthier relationship to sex that integrates the mind, the heart, and the body.
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1:16.2	How can a pursuer learn to love a withdrawal when they go away.
1:23.0	What do you think, Lori?
1:25.0	I like this.
1:26.0	It seems like a relevant topic for me as a pursuer.
1:30.0	All right.
1:32.0	I sometimes will help my pursuing couples. I don't do this all the time but I have a
1:37.1	pursuing female right now and something happened in their sexual relationships.
1:43.7	She's very beautiful and somehow or another he doesn't tell her that,
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