238: Four Sexy Questions

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2020

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

It's so hard to ask for what I want in bed or how to answer what do you want me to do to you sexually. Why? George says we either want to protect our partner from something hurtful and we're avoiding what we feel. But without talking about it, we shortcut that delicious exploration, even the missing spots and getting redirected - that is part of the magic of excitement. Our 4 questions are open-ended and hopefully spark real conversation between you and your lover - even if you've been doin' it forever. Check our our great sponsor Uberlube! Use the coupon code "Foreplay" so that they know we sent you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The following content is not suitable for children.
0:02.4	Hello, Lori.
0:04.0	Today we've got a good one.
0:06.2	Four sexy questions to ask your lover.
0:08.8	Ooh.
0:09.8	Welcome to Four Play Radio, Couples and Sex Therapy. I'm Lori Watson, your sex therapist.
0:18.0	And I'm George Fallon, the Couples therapist.
0:21.0	And we are passionate about talking about sex and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.
0:26.0	Our mission is to help our audience develop a healthier relationship to sex that integrates the mind, the heart, and the body.
0:36.4	Just as we begin, please remember to check out UberLube.
0:39.4	UberLube.com is where you can get this great lubricant and help support 4 Play Radio.
0:45.0	How do we communicate and have conversations around sex?
0:49.5	I mean, our field is saturated with messages of different ways of communicating to your partner you would think we're all
0:57.9	Amazing at it.
0:59.5	Yeah, absolutely and yet so many people are not talking about it with their partner, right?
1:07.0	They're doing it, but they don't talk about it.
1:10.0	And what's that about, this not talking about sex?
1:15.4	I like this guy, Justin Lee Miller and he's a researcher.
1:19.2	He's done research actually on EFT and sex and he says you know you are so much more vulnerable talking
1:26.2	about sex than doing it. What? Why I that resonated with me and I think that's
1:31.3	true I think it is so much harder to talk about it than just to do it. Why do you think that is though?
1:37.0	Because we've separated the sex is so often the physical and that's all we're paying attention to and yet to talk
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