231 | July Q & A
ADHD reWired
Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP
4.8 • 937 Ratings
🗓️ 14 August 2018
⏱️ 61 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Because to me perfectionism is nothing but destructive. I don't see that drive of perfectionism. I'm like no no that drive is unhealthy and toxic. |
| 0:08.2 | Yeah, like I want to do a good job. I want to perform well. I want to meet the expectations of the people who have expectations of me. |
| 0:15.0 | But the perfectionism that's self-motivated like need for excellence, to me, like in my world, |
| 0:21.0 | and this is my internal stuff, that stuff will burn you out. |
| 0:24.1 | It's not worth it. |
| 0:25.1 | 80HD, rewired, episode 231. |
| 0:36.0 | This is the show designed for those of us |
| 0:39.2 | with really good intentions, |
| 0:41.0 | but a slightly wandering attention. My name is Eric Tivers. I'm a licensed clinical |
| 0:46.4 | social worker, coach, and speaker. The website is ADHD rewired.com. We know that starting is the hardest part so let's get started. But first let me tell you about this. |
| 1:02.0 | It's great to somebody have friends which you can really share these things |
| 1:07.1 | with that you find difficult. I look at things differently. I'm much less |
| 1:10.8 | frustrated. How I would describe the group is that it's more than accountability. |
| 1:16.8 | It's so much more than that. |
| 1:19.0 | It's community, it's learning, it's practicing what we learn and problem solving through it. |
| 1:26.0 | It's structure and that structure is so helpful not just to have it but to practice being in structure and seeing how that goes and the impact it has. |
| 1:35.0 | The accountability is helpful as well, both with the group as well as with each of the sessions. |
| 1:40.7 | We have this shared levels of commitment to making this change in our lives that is almost impossible to find out in the world otherwise. |
| 1:52.0 | This isn't something like a class that you go to and just listen to. |
| 1:56.0 | This is listening and sharing. |
| 1:58.0 | It's participating and contributing. |
| 2:01.0 | It's not just hearing advice, it's sharing our own experiences so that people |
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