225. Safety over Salary: Redefining Masculine Power

Overcome Pornography for Good

Sara Brewer

Christianity, Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness

5 • 679 Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2025

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

What does it truly mean to be a provider as a man? For many people, masculine worth has been tightly linked to financial provision—the bigger the salary, the more successful the man. This narrow definition has created wounds that affect relationships, communities, and sense of self-worth.

It's time we expand our understanding of masculine power. The traditional model of "providing equals money" often leads to competitive rather than collaborative energy, especially in relationships. When a man's entire identity becomes wrapped up in his earning potential, he misses opportunities to provide what families and communities truly need.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/salary-safety-masculine-power

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0:00.0	You are listening to the Overcome Pornography for Good podcast, episode 225, safety over salary,
0:08.2	redefining masculine power.
0:11.4	Welcome to the Overcome Pornography for Good podcast, where we take a research-based,
0:17.2	trauma-informed, and results-focused approach to quitting porn.
0:22.2	This approach has been revolutionary and changed thousands and thousands of lives.
0:27.7	I'm your host, Sarah Brewer.
0:31.4	Hey, everyone, welcome to today's podcast episode.
0:34.2	I'm so glad you're here.
0:35.2	I'm so excited to talk about this topic today.
0:37.1	It's come up a couple of times in different coaching calls and different conversations I've had
0:41.1	with like different members of my team and then just with different people throughout my life.
0:47.1	And I've been, oh, I really want to do a podcast episode. I really want to do a podcast episode.
0:50.2	I really want to do a podcast episode on this. And here we are. We're finally doing it. First, I just want to, it's been a while
0:54.9	since I said thank you. Thank you for those of you who have left me a podcast review, truly.
0:59.5	It's one of my favorite things to read. But more than that, more than just for me, thank you,
1:03.9	because it helps other people find this work and find out what we're doing and find these new
1:08.6	ways of looking at these things that just honestly
1:10.8	changed lives. And so thank you for sharing podcast review. If you haven't yet, I would love it.
1:16.4	If you would, you can just do that at the bottom of the Apple podcast page or wherever it is
1:21.4	that you listen to your podcast. And I want to just shout out a couple of these.
1:25.2	This one says, the title says, it's a new way to live without fear.
1:29.7	Said this program has helped me so much already. Just understanding what I am feeling and why I
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