224 - The Conversation Lab - Misha Glouberman

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🗓️ 23 January 2022

⏱️ 63 minutes

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In this episode of the You Are Not So Smart Podcast, we sit down once again with Misha Glouberman, an expert on conflict and conversation, to discuss how best to improve your communication skills and turn what you suspect will be a difficult interaction into something marvelous and fruitful - the sort of talk that strengthens your relationship with the other person and leaves you both feeling like you gained and learned something – the kind you'd like to have again. Mentioned in the show, here is the link to a free online class with Misha Glouberman on Feb 1st.Patreon: http://patreon.com/youarenotsosmart

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0:00.0	Welcome to the You Are Not So Smart Podcast episode 224.
0:30.0	So, um, hey mom, how are you doing? I'm doing all right. How are you? I'm good. I'm good.
0:50.5	Hey, listen, I wanted to know, um, I don't suppose you've changed your mind at all about getting the vaccine. Have you?
0:54.4	Of course, I didn't just change my mind. Well, how do you, did you read the articles I sent you?
0:59.2	Well, I looked them over and I saw they were all from different liberal media and so there was one I
1:04.4	looked at. It was too long. You know, you send me these things or you barely get through.
1:08.4	I could send you a summary if you want. I mean, it's, it's a really important information. I
1:11.5	understand if you're busy or if it's not what you want, but I mean, I can send you different
1:14.8	information. I just, it's just so important that you, you know, get the shot. I mean, send me
1:19.4	whatever you want, but you know, I'm not going to trust everything I read and I don't think you should either.
1:30.9	This is an episode about how to improve your communication skills, how to turn what you suspect
1:37.3	will be a difficult conversation into something marvelous and fruitful, a conversation that
1:42.8	strengthens your relationship with the other person, a conversation from which both people will
1:48.0	walk away feeling like they gain something, learn something, the kind they'd like to have again.
1:55.8	I mean, just that there's, I don't trust everything, but there's just like, there's, there's so,
1:58.9	there's so much research. I mean, there's, there's, there's so much research right now showing how
2:03.2	abundantly safe it is and also how dangerous the COVID is right now. Well, you should know where I
2:08.8	get my information from. There's a lot of danger to the vaccine too and, you know, you can't just
2:13.3	believe everything you read. It doesn't matter if they produce it a hundred times.
2:20.0	What you're listening to here is an example of what not to do when having a difficult conversation,
2:26.0	not just about vaccination, but about anything with anyone, but especially with a person,
2:32.7	well, someone you've argued with before and who you anticipate to argue with again in the future.
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