Welcome to the Shaline show. Shaline is a New York Times best-selling author celebrity fitness trainer and obsessed with helping you live your dream life

Hey there. Thanks so much for joining me on this edition of the Shaline show as

Promise I have here with me my very special guest

Brett Johnson who also happens to be my partner in business my partner in life and my partner in parenting

Of course, we have different perspectives on parenting. We're on the same team. We

believe in the same things when it comes to our children meaning we want the best for them

But we are a team and even though Brett was raised by different parents and he had different experiences as have I

We both agree that what we want for our kids is for them to be happy

Self-sufficient confident. We want them to be kind

We want them to feel as though they are loved because they are uniquely themselves

We don't want them to be little mini versions of ourselves

We want them to be happy and we want them to make other people happy

But not the cost of sacrificing who they are and what they believe in

Brett and I have spent a lot of time reading parenting books talking about parenting talking about her own

Experiences and one thing I want to say before I turn it over to him is that it's really important especially ladies

I have to tell you that your

Husband is going to do things differently than you and that has great value and when you nitpick and when you tell your spouse or try to fix things that your spouse has done or

Correct them in front of your children

You really diminish their power their authority and their interest in wanting to contribute and be an equal partner

In parenting. All right. That was my two cents without further ado Brett Johnson

Hi, I'm Brett Johnson. Thank you so much Shaleen

So today we are going to talk about how to talk to your son or your daughter

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