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🗓️ 5 October 2023
⏱️ 94 minutes
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In this episode Sal, Adam & Justin speak with national best-selling author, mental health expert and host of The Dr. John Delony Show, Dr. John Delony.
Anxiety is NOT your problem. Anxiety is just trying to get your ATTENTION. (2:15)
What makes anxiety so addictive? (4:19)
How anxiety is a smoke detector in your kitchen. (6:54)
How to identify bad behaviors. (11:04)
Your body would be FAILING you if you didn’t recognize you were lonely. (14:22)
The quiet life of desperation. (17:09)
Practice by SHOWING up. (22:33)
Learning how to shift and become a safe house. (25:08)
Go first and just be weird. (29:01)
How we are communicating and NOT connecting. (38:27)
The dangers of self-diagnosing yourself. (42:02)
Stopping the ‘shame spiral’. (46:35)
The steps to building a non-anxious life. (50:57)
#1 – Choose reality. (51:42)
#2 – Choose connection. (55:35)
#3 – Choose freedom. (58:26)
#4- Choose mindfulness. (1:01:41)
#5 – Choose belief. (1:03:22)
A major turning point in his life. (1:03:30)
One of the greatest curses of modern masculinity. (1:09:40)
The BIG difference between loneliness and solitude. (1:13:59)
What do I need right now? (1:16:43)
Finding your purpose when things slow down. (1:19:47)
His favorite things about what he does. (1:24:20)
Don’t let your kids hurt your feelings. (1:25:46)
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0:00.0 | If you want to pump your body and expand your mind, there's only one place to go. |
0:06.3 | Mind, pop, mind, pop with your hosts. |
0:09.3 | Salda Stefano, Adam Schaefer, and Justin Andrews. |
0:13.4 | You just found the most downloaded fitness health and entertainment podcast. |
0:17.2 | This is Mind Pump. |
0:18.7 | Today's episode, Dr. John Deloney. |
0:21.8 | He is a number one bestselling author. |
0:24.8 | He's a mental health expert. |
0:26.0 | He's the host of the Dr. John Deloney show. |
0:28.0 | It's an amazing show. |
0:29.0 | It's where we found them. |
0:30.4 | And since 2020, he has served at Ramsey Solutions. |
0:33.7 | This is where he teaches on relationships, mental health, healthy leadership and emotional |
0:39.0 | wellness. |
0:40.0 | He also spent two decades in crisis response, literally walking people through severe trauma. |
0:45.9 | He holds two PhDs in counselor education and supervision and in higher education administration. |
0:51.3 | He's also a very, very, very cool guy. |
0:53.9 | We love him. |
0:55.1 | His advice is incredible. |
0:56.1 | He just wrote a book. |
0:57.1 | It just dropped yesterday called Build a Non-Ancient Life. |
1:01.0 | I felt like he was talking to me as I went through this book. |
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