My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition coach and

Trauma Specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. Happy, happy day to you.

I hope that you are doing well, and that you are surrounded

about those who love you, and that you're also knowing that you are worthy of

love. I have a really good friend who, shout out to you if you're listening, I have a really good friend who is really going through it right now and I want you to know

not just to my friend but anyone else who may be going through it that your emotions are not too much for people that your problems are not too big for others that you deserve to be seen and heard and that people who love you want to be there for you, whether or not it is giving you space,

whether or not it is just sitting with you while you're grieving,

whether or not it is taking you out and distracting you, sending you funny jokes,

whatever it may be, just know that the people who love you take pleasure and

taking care of you and it's important for you to let them and it's important for you to open your

heart to that because I think one of the hardest parts of when you're going

through crisis and turmoil is feeling that you're so alone and

feeling as if there is something wrong and that what you're dealing with is so big and

so overwhelming that no one could possibly understand and even if they try to that it would

repel them more.

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