From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,

romantic is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenzo, your co-host with my

beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for

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In today's show, what happens to your marriage when you don't connect for many years.

You become strangers.

I've heard that so many times.

So many women when I'm out speaking come up to me and talk about how they feel like

they're strangers and I want to start at this show with this quote from author

Cali Hunter she wrote a book called Disenchanted and this is a line one of the authors or one of the speakers says in the book it says they were not a family anymore they were strangers tied together but chains, but they had rusted

something had disappeared. And I know a lot of you that are listening to the show right now

and you're thinking I feel like

we're strangers I feel like that's what's going on in our marriage and we're

going to be digging into this deep and hard today but we got to start the show with a hug because that's where that's

where I come from we start with a show from Hug and this hug actually came up on iTunes

and I just a little plug for putting reviews and

ratings up on iTunes guys every time that you make that decision to go into

iTunes to leave a five star rating or yeah five star rating and then to actually take the time

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