From San Diego, California, this is the One Extraordinary Mary Show, where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host along with my

beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for

joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663.

That's 858, 876,563.

563.

In today's show, it's not just a quantity of sex that determines the health of your

marriage, but the ability to see your

marriage from a holistic view. And in looking at that I want to open today's show

with this quote from Arthur Ericsson, a Canadian architect and urban planner.

And he said, our incapacity to comprehend other cultures stems from our insistence on measuring

things in our own terms.

And I just want to translate that. on measuring things in our own terms.

And I just want to translate that into marriage speak,

for lack of a better phrasing,

to say, in terms of your marriage,

your inability to comprehend what is going on in your

marriage comes from your insistence in measuring things on your own terms only and

not communicating with your spouse and that's really what we're going to be talking about today when we look at

approaching you're looking at set you know just the quantity of sex that you're having

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