211. ONE Year After Setting Goals Together, This Happened | Jake & Alyx Dreyfuss

The ONE Thing

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Entrepreneurship, Business, Careers

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2019

⏱️ 41 minutes

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Summary

No one succeeds alone — yet, most people try to. One of the biggest mistakes we see people making is that they set goals by themselves, and then they struggle throughout the year because the people who are in their life — the people who have to buy into their goals if they want to accomplish them — aren’t on the same page. That’s why we created The ONE Thing Couple’s Goal-Setting Retreat, modeling an exercise that Jay and Wendy Papasan have been doing for the past decade. The point isn’t to negotiate for whose goals are right, but for each person to understand what the other person’s goals are and how they can support the other person in achieving those goals. In this episode, we’re going to look at what happens when a couple, for the first time, sets their goals together. The results are pretty amazing, but here’s the best part: you can do it too. If you want to put the ideas discussed in this episode into action, consider joining us at our Goal-Setting Retreat. And if you can’t make it to Austin this year, we’ll help you host your own retreat with the Kick Ass Guide® to Your Couples Goal Setting Retreat and the Goal Setting Retreat Master Course. In this episode, you will learn... [13:20] How you know when you aren’t on the same page with the people close to you. [17:50] What has surprised Jake & Alyx since their goal-setting retreat. [25:40] Why you should set goals with not just your significant other, but also your business partner and/or team. [29:10] What you should avoid when you’re setting goals. [30:00] How to set goals when you aren’t a natural goal setter (and why you should). Links & Tools From This Episode Join us at our Goal-Setting Retreat (Nov. 9th & 10th in Austin, TX): the1thing.com/event. Download the FREE Kick Ass Guide® to Your Couples Goal Setting Retreat We’ll help you facilitate a retreat with the Goal Setting Retreat Master Course Mentioned in this episode: Factor 75 Head to FactorMeals.com/one50 and use code one50 to get 50% off. That’s code one50 at FactorMeals.com/one50 to get 50% off! Factor 75

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0:00.0	This is the One Thing Podcast where we teach you the surprisingly simple truth behind extraordinary results.
0:10.0	My name's Jeff Woods. I'm the vice president here at the One Thing team.
0:15.3	No one succeeds alone. Yet would it surprise you if we said that most people try to.
0:23.1	Think about it in your life.
0:25.3	Do you set goals every year?
0:27.8	Do you ask yourself,
0:29.2	what do I want to do differently?
0:30.2	What do I want to accomplish?
0:31.2	What I want my business to look like?
0:32.4	My finances, my health health any area of your life
0:36.0	Do you ask the question who are the people in my life that directly contribute to whether or not I achieve my goal,
0:46.3	whether that be a significant other,
0:48.2	a business partner, a team, your boss, your friends.
0:53.0	One of the biggest mistakes we see people making is that they set goals by themselves
0:59.0	and then they struggle throughout the year because the people that are in their life that are required to buy
1:05.6	into their goals to be successful aren't actually on the same page.
1:10.8	Have you ever found yourself not being on the same page with your significant
1:14.4	other or with a boss, a partner, a colleague, it's hard right. This is why we've
1:21.8	created the one-thing
1:22.8	couple's goal-setting retreat for over a decade
1:26.0	prior to last year, Jay and his wife Wendy,
1:28.4	every year took a night away from the kids,
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